職場英語：這些事你要學(xué)會(huì)說“不”(2)

如果真的是要緊的事情需要你去做，即使沒有提醒功能來告訴你，你也會(huì)去做。完全專注于你正在做的事情。然后按照你自己設(shè)定的計(jì)劃來做，而不是照著別人的計(jì)劃行動(dòng)。 5. Let the past dictate the future. 讓過去決定未來 Mistakes are valuable. Learn from them.Then let them go. 錯(cuò)誤都是很寶貴的。從錯(cuò)誤中總結(jié)，不要執(zhí)著于過去犯下的錯(cuò)誤。 Easier said than done? It all depends on your perspective. When something goes wrong, turn it into an opportunity to learn something you didn't know--especially about yourself. When something goes wrong for someone else, turn it into an opportunity to be gracious, forgiving, and understanding. 說起來容易做起來難？這完全取決于你的態(tài)度。如果你犯了錯(cuò)，把錯(cuò)誤當(dāng)成是學(xué)習(xí)的機(jī)會(huì)，尤其是利用犯錯(cuò)來更多地認(rèn)識自己。如果是別人犯了錯(cuò)，把錯(cuò)誤轉(zhuǎn)變成一個(gè)體現(xiàn)你和藹、寬容、理解他人的機(jī)會(huì)。 The past is just training. The past should definitely inform but in no way define you--unless you let it. 過去僅僅只是訓(xùn)練。過去會(huì)顯示出你不足的一面，卻不能以任何方式來界定你——除非你讓它這么做。 相關(guān)閱讀：如何應(yīng)對工作中的失誤>>> 6. Wait until I'm sure I will succeed. 等待成功 You can never feel sure you will succeed at something new, but you can always feel sure you are committed to giving something your best. And you can always feel sure you will try again if you fail. Stop waiting. 對于一些新生事物，你無法保證自己一定能獲得成功，但是你卻可以知道自己有沒有盡最大的努力。你能確保自己在失敗后繼續(xù)嘗試。所以，停止等待吧。 7. Talk behind someone's back. 在背后說人是非 If you've talked to more than one person about something Joe is doing, wouldn't everyone be better off if you stepped up and actually talked to Joe about it? And if it's "not your place" to talk to Joe, it's probably not your place to talk about Joe. 你對不止一個(gè)人談?wù)撽P(guān)于喬正在做的一些事情，但如果你親自去跟喬說起這些，不是更好嗎？如果你沒有權(quán)利去和喬討論，那么你就沒有資格去談?wù)搯獭?Spend your time on productive conversations. You'll get a lot more done--and you'll gain a lot more respect. 把你的時(shí)間花在更有成效的對話中去。你將會(huì)完成得更多，并且獲得更多的尊敬。 8. Say "yes" when I really mean "no." 口是心非，不會(huì)拒絕 Refusing a request from colleagues, customers, or even friends is really hard. But rarely does saying no go as badly as you expect. Most people will understand, and if they don't, should you care too much about what they think? 拒絕一個(gè)來自同事，顧客，甚至是朋友的請求，真的很難。但是偶爾拒絕也并不會(huì)像你想象中那么壞。大多數(shù)人會(huì)理解的，而且如果他們不理解的話，你也沒有必要去太多關(guān)注別人的想法，不是嗎？ When you say no, at least you'll only feel bad for a few moments. When you say yes to something you really don't want to do you might feel bad for a long time--or at least as long as it takes you to do what you didn't want to do in the first place. 當(dāng)你拒絕別人的時(shí)候，你只會(huì)難過一會(huì)。而當(dāng)你接受了別人的請求，但事實(shí)上這件事你確實(shí)不想做，你就會(huì)難過很久，至少從你一開始不想接受到做完那件事的這段時(shí)期，你都會(huì)感到難受。 http://m.clearvueentertainment.com/